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Having the talk about what to do in case of an emergency

For the past two weeks, the elevator at my daughter’s school has been out of order. This complicates things greatly for Grace, who was diagnosed with Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS) when she was 15 years old. Looking back, I am so grateful we made the decision to home-school our…

Seeing major improvements thanks to long-term physical therapy

“Continuous effort — not strength or intelligence — is the key to unlocking and using our potential.” — Liane Cordes Physical therapy is often the first step toward renewed strength for those with Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS). Even before our daughter Grace was diagnosed with LEMS at…

Why it makes a difference to meet others with LEMS in person

Our daughter Grace is more than three years out from her diagnosis of Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS). Until now, we’ve never met anyone in person who has LEMS. We’ve had wonderful friendships develop through Facebook groups, BioNews forums, Zoom town halls, and phone calls. But it’s not…

Falling was one of my daughter’s earliest LEMS symptoms

Last week, much of the northeastern United States was hunkered down for yet another nor’easter. As snow fell on our northern neighbors, here in the South, we were enjoying spring-like weather. Many of the local schools are out for spring break. My back porch is full of flowers blooming red…

Things I wish I knew after my daughter’s LEMS diagnosis

What is the first thing most of us did when the doctor mentioned Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS) as a possible diagnosis? We Googled it, of course. We know that, while the internet offers a wealth of information, it also documents every worst-case scenario. Still, desperate for information, we…

How rare disease awareness benefits the LEMS community

When I hear statistics about how many people are affected by the rare disease Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS), I’m overcome by the minuscule odds that my daughter Grace is one of them. How could such a rare and unknown illness affect my child? Having LEMS as an adult is…

What I wish others understood about living with chronic illness

I’m often surprised by the general lack of understanding about chronic illness and rare disease, which reminds me just how important it is to share our stories. In doing so, we can combat common misconceptions. Many friends and acquaintances knew about our daughter Grace’s declining health and eventual…