Seeking a Good Night’s Sleep With an Autoimmune Disease
It’s often true that we never really know how much we treasure something until we no longer have it. We can also tend to take things for granted in life by never truly appreciating what we have until it’s taken from us.
I found this to be true of sleep when our 16-year-old daughter Grace started showing signs of what we now know to be Lambert-Eaton myasthenic syndrome (LEMS).
For most of my life, I never had trouble sleeping. Usually, I was out shortly after my head hit the pillow, and I didn’t stir until morning. But worrying about our daughter’s deteriorating health stole hours upon hours of my rest.
Never before had I recognized the sweet gift of sleep and begged for more.
Although I struggled for a while, I eventually got through it, and my sleep patterns mostly went back to normal. However, now that I’m part of the LEMS community, I’ve realized that lack of sleep is common among people with autoimmune diseases, especially those with LEMS.
Many parents might complain about their teenagers snoozing the day away, but I would welcome that for Grace. Looking back, we realize that her inability to sleep was probably an early warning sign of the autoimmune issues that would soon surface.
On average, Grace gets between five and seven hours of sleep a night. If she has a really good night, she might get eight hours, but that is rare.
To cultivate a comfortable sleep setting, we have eliminated all ambient light. Grace has used sound machines for background noise, and we ensure the air conditioning is at a cool — but not too cool — temperature. She attempts to stay away from computer and phone screens prior to bedtime. She has listened to gentle music and books on tape. Reading before bed helps a little, but nothing seems to make a significant difference in her sleep pattern.
We have tried every trick in the book when it comes to sleep aids, with the exception of medicinal options. Herbal tea definitely helps, but Grace can’t get past the taste.
When Grace was given an Apple Watch, we thought it would be great for tracking her sleep. There are so many apps out there that can do this. However, it was distressing to see just how interrupted her sleep really was.
I know the world of autoimmune diseases is constantly changing. I hope that one day we can find solutions for those suffering from sleep deprivation and give them some much-needed rest. I, for one, will never again take for granted sleep that comes with ease.
How do you get a good night’s rest while living with LEMS? Please share in the comments below.
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